One sided or two sided?

So, one of the "discussions" that I have had with my boyfriend is if, a wedding day is the bride's day, the groom's day, or both.

Personally, I'm a little biased towards the brides. I think that after all the dreaming, talking, and planning we do about our wedding day; we should get a little more attention. 

That being said, I also believe that it is both the bride and the groom's day. After all, they are starting a new life TOGETHER.

If the day ended up only being for the bride and her every wish, then it would be just a big, spoiled, Sweet 16. Except for a puffy, expensive, white dress. Oh wait, that already happens on MTV's "My Super Sweet 16."

At the end of the day, I hope that the process of planning a wedding and the day it's self, is a joyful one where no one becomes a Bridezilla, Groomzilla, or Momzilla and the couple can celebrate together equally, well, almost.